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Is Learning Slang the Same as Entering That Community?

About this topic

Is learning slang equivalent to becoming a member of that community? Can you enter 'inside' by learning the words, or are the words merely a 'key' to enter, with true belonging lying elsewhere? This question re-examines the relationship between language and identity, entry and belonging, surface and depth.

Conceptual positions
01 Language = Belonging Identification Theory

The view that becoming able to use slang correctly is almost the same as having 'entered' that community. Language acquisition is both proof and substance of belonging.

02 Language = Surface Tool Theory

The view that slang is merely a 'key' or 'password'; even if learned, one does not truly enter the community. Deep belonging is determined by sharing beyond words (experiences, values, relationships).

03 Rite of Passage Theory

Learning slang is an 'initiation ritual' into the community; in the process of learning the words, values and relationships are naturally internalized. It serves as a bridge from surface to depth.

04 Identity Negotiation Theory

Learning slang is merely the beginning of identity negotiation with the community. Whether one truly enters is decided in the process of expressing oneself with the words and being recognized by others.

Talk entry points

  1. When you entered a new community (game, SNS, hobby group, etc.), did you first try to learn the slang? Did you feel you had 'entered' because of that?

  2. How did you feel when the other person started skillfully using the slang you use? Did you feel they had 'become a comrade', or did you think 'that's a bit off'?

  3. Have you ever felt that just by learning slang you had become 'a person of that community'? Did you later feel 'actually it's different'?

  4. What do you think about the idea that 'learning slang lets you enter the community'? Agree? Disagree? Or agree with conditions?

  5. When someone who recently joined a community you have long belonged to was using slang perfectly, what reaction did you have?

  6. Which comes first: learning slang, or understanding the 'atmosphere' and 'values' of that community?

Conceptual tensions
Surface Words vsDeep Belonging
Is learning slang merely 'surface' entry, and true belonging cannot be measured by words? Or does learning words also change the deep layer?
Key vsHouse
Is slang merely the 'key' to the community, or by obtaining the key do you enter the 'house' itself and settle in?
Imitation vsInternalization
Is learning slang 'imitation', or the process of internalizing it as 'one's own'? Where can the line be drawn?
Welcome vsCaution
Should we 'welcome' or 'be cautious' of people who approach by learning slang? How to balance the community's openness and defensiveness.
Power of Words vsLimits of Words
Is slang a powerful 'ticket' into the community, or 'merely a ticket'? How to view the power and limits of words.
Talk note

This topic is not about deciding whether one 'should or should not' learn slang. It is a space to quietly explore what it means to 'enter' through words, and what happens after one has 'entered'.

Glossary
Linguistic Entry
Gaining access rights to a community by acquiring specific words or expressions. Enables superficial belonging.
Authentic Belonging
Deep sense of belonging established not only by words but by sharing values, experiences, relationships, and history.
Words as Password
A superficial linguistic signal to prove membership in a community. Anyone can use it if they learn it, but it does not guarantee true understanding.
Linguistic Rite of Passage
The act of learning slang serving as a kind of 'initiation ceremony' into the community.
Talk prompts
Ice breaker

What was the community where you felt you had most 'entered'? What slang did you learn at that time? Please tell me about that feeling.

Deep dive

If there was a way to 'truly enter' that community without learning any slang at all, what do you think that way would be?

Bridge

If the other person has started using a bit of slang from your community, lightly ask 'Where did you learn that word?' as an opportunity to hear the story behind the words.

Further questions
  • Existence of people who are still treated as 'outsiders' even after perfectly learning slang
  • How do 'old-timers' in a community evaluate new members' use of slang
  • Can AI learn slang and become 'a member of the community'
  • People who enter a community using slang as a 'weapon' and then cause change from within
  • The relationship between forgetting slang and 'leaving' the community