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Media Effects Theory

Myself in Front of the Screen and Myself Without the Screen

About this topic

Myself in front of the screen and myself without the screen refers to the differences and continuities that arise between the self when facing a smartphone or PC screen and the self in everyday life away from the screen. In media effects theory, it examines how self-presentation across screens (profile photos, posts, reactions) influences actual self-concept and behavior. The divergence between the self that tries to 'look better' in front of the screen and the 'authentic' self without the screen sometimes creates stress or identity fluctuations. This question touches the core of selfhood in the digital age, the boundary between online and offline, and the influence of media on self-formation.

Conceptual positions
01 Continuity Theory

The view that the self in front of the screen and without it are essentially the same; differences are merely matters of expression. The digital is an extension of the self.

02 Divergence Theory

The view that one performs an 'ideal self' in front of the screen while the 'true self' emerges without it. Divergence creates identity crisis.

03 Integration Theory

The view that treats the self in front of the screen and without it as integrated different aspects depending on context. Aims for a flexible self that utilizes both.

04 Media Environment Determinism

The view that the very presence of the screen fundamentally defines the nature of the self. Self-images arise that would not exist without the digital environment.

Talk entry points

  1. Is there a difference in the sense of 'being myself' you feel in front of the screen versus without it?

  2. What is the difference in yourself when you care about likes and reactions in front of the screen versus when you do not?

  3. After closing the screen, do you feel you can immediately return to your 'true self,' or does it take time?

  4. Do you sometimes feel that the self in front of the screen is 'performing'?

  5. Do you want to bring the self without the screen closer to the self in front of the screen, or the opposite?

  6. Do you want to value both the self in front of the screen and the self without it?

Conceptual tensions
Authentic vsPerformance
Is the self in front of the screen the 'true self' or the 'performed self'? How do you judge which is more 'like yourself'?
Continuity vsDiscontinuity
Are the self in front of the screen and without it connected or separate people? Does the digital divide or extend the self?
Ideal vsReality
How to handle the conflict that arises between the ideal self one aims for in front of the screen and the real self without it.
Freedom vsConstraint
Can one freely express oneself in front of the screen, or is one bound by algorithms and others' eyes?
Talk note

This topic is not for denying the self in front of the screen or idealizing the self without it. It is a space for dialogue to accept both selves as they are and to live the digital age more authentically.

Glossary
Self-Presentation
The act of intentionally controlling how one appears to others. Becomes especially strategic across screens.
Digital Identity
The self-image constructed and expressed online. Overlaps with the offline self yet possesses unique characteristics.
Online-Offline Divergence
The differences or contradictions in the self one feels in front of the screen versus without it. Can cause stress or identity crisis.
Self-Concept
The totality of beliefs and images one holds about oneself. Experiences through media form and transform it.
Authenticated Self
The 'true self' felt in everyday life without the screen. The gap with the strategic self in front of the screen becomes problematic.
Mediatized Self
The self adapted to the logic of media (likes, followers, algorithms). Becomes especially prominent in front of the screen.
Talk prompts
Ice breaker

Recall one moment when you felt in front of the screen 'This self might not be my true self.' What did you feel then?

Deep dive

If you had been born into a world with no screens at all, how do you think your sense of 'being yourself' would change?

Bridge

As you listen to the other person, quietly imagine: 'To what extent is this person changing themselves in front of the screen versus without it?'

Further questions
  • What characteristics do people have who feel the self in front of the screen is their 'true self'?
  • Does long hours in front of the screen lower self-esteem in places without the screen?
  • The influence of online 'likes' on offline self-esteem
  • The difference between the self one can only show in front of the screen and the self one can only show without it
  • What is the 'true self' one feels after a digital detox?
  • Is it possible to integrate the self in front of the screen and the self without it?